BAD and GOOD habits, What Society wants us to do.

All outfits:

-Semi cardigan/Dress With pearls: Creation by Doina Levintza

-Burgundy velvet platformshoes : Biba, House of Fraser

-White Dress, Zara. Available in my Vide Dressing Ebay widget !

Pictures by Ioana , Rufflesforbreakfast.com

Two opposed photoshoots.

 First this smoking vintage twist of the 20s with the transparency of the dress and fringes.

I wasn't really into posing with a fag , because I'm a non smoking person and-proud-to-be.

But I thought, well why not, we were doing these pictures for my blog also and yes I wanted to talked to you about this habit people hold.

To be social, I couldn't talk about other countries than France once again: so my point of view may be narrowed, you have to smoke.

 Why? As it's always seen really bad on ads, and in front of your doctor !

Well, I supposed people are a bit too much of a coward sometimes, and instead of stepping out the line they prefer to follow the lead.

The lead of whom? Of people who weren't even smoking person, perhaps in the first place !

But to get a pause break in your work, you can't say "oh I'm just breaking for 5-10min doing nothing, just staying in or going out to breathe some fresh air." No, that you can't.

But, to say I'm breaking in for few min, just to have a fag, that is clearly understable in society.

So WTF, how does that work ? How have we gone from struggling of to have a clean life , with foods and a nice place to live and not die too young, to keep this weapon gently settled between us.

I don't understand. And what I hardly even understand is that you cannot integrate yourself easily into a bunch of people if they smoke and you don't. Some will say, yes I can, but let's be honest ... It's weird no? Standing here, leaving your arms leaning there, while they seem to really do something.

Anyway, that's too long for me to chat about it deeper but that's clearly my point of view.

Second.

We always hear: eat your greens. 5 a day. Etc. 

But when one does so , they get terribly lectured.

I mean, who knows a vegan or vegetarian, who hasn't been into some kind of "talks" with people when they say they are. And it always ends meanful.

My fiancée is a vege and always has those talks with people , even me sometimes I act like a curious who asks for things , even I know she eats just like me apart from meat.

So it's stupid, because she and vege & vegan are just using much more capacity of food , without restraining themselves like people used to, by eating at each meal : meat/potatoes or pasta/ fake vegetables like peas.

So when have we stopped to deny real food? Those which grows naturally, and without any transformation ?

I mean, last month I was sick and God I was so happy to eat real food, a real apple, or banana when I could.

So this week after the International non-eating meat Day and Happiness Day (yes it does exist!) I spread consciousness to people who acts or acted like me once, and know it's hard when you are not in a row.

Love,

Lorna